{"id":10314,"date":"2026-02-16T22:00:22","date_gmt":"2026-02-16T21:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fcer.ch\/?p=10314"},"modified":"2026-02-18T10:40:41","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T09:40:41","slug":"communiquer-positivement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fcer.ch\/index.php\/communiquer-positivement\/","title":{"rendered":"Communiquer positivement"},"content":{"rendered":"

Communiquer positivement, \u00e7a veut quoi?<\/h3><\/div>
    \n
  • Formulation affirmative :<\/strong> dire ce que l’on attend au lieu de ce qui est interdit (ex: “Marche doucement” au lieu de “Ne cours pas”).<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Empathie et respect :<\/strong> chercher \u00e0 comprendre l’enfant et valoriser ses comp\u00e9tences.<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Honn\u00eatet\u00e9 et transparence :<\/strong> exprimer ses id\u00e9es clairement tout en restant bienveillant.<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Utilisation du “JE” :<\/strong> exprimer ses \u00e9motions et besoins sans accuser l’autre.<\/span><\/li>\n
  • Focus sur les solutions :<\/strong> se concentrer sur le positif et le futur plut\u00f4t que sur le probl\u00e8me.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>

    Et concr\u00e8tement, avec mon \u00e9quipe de junior.e.s?<\/h3><\/div>

    A l’entra\u00eenement, c’est en te pr\u00e9parant<\/b> que tu \u00e9limineras le recours \u00e0 la communication n\u00e9gative, bien souvent due \u00e0 une r\u00e9action impulsive car non anticip\u00e9e!!!<\/b><\/span>
    \nLa r\u00e9ussite d\u2019un jeu ou d\u2019un exercice d\u00e9pend essentiellement de toi.<\/b> De la connaissance que tu as du niveau de tes joueurs, de leurs qualit\u00e9s. Et des facteurs ext\u00e9rieurs (m\u00e9t\u00e9o, qualit\u00e9 du terrain, fatigue, excitation, \u2026) qui viendront de toutes fa\u00e7ons<\/b> influencer cette r\u00e9ussite.\u200b<\/p>\n<\/div>

    Un exemple…<\/h3><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>
    <\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div>

    Tu as pr\u00e9vu de faire ce jeu dans ton entra\u00eenement.. La pr\u00e9paration ne s’arr\u00eate pas au choix de l’exercice<\/b>. Tu dois surtout anticiper et te pr\u00e9parer au maximum au bon ou au mauvais d\u00e9roulement de ce jeu :<\/span><\/p>\n

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    • Comment vais-je expliquer ce jeu?<\/li>\n
    • Comment vais-je coacher ce jeu?<\/li>\n
    • Comment vais-je me comporter en cas de r\u00e9ussite?<\/li>\n
    • Comment vais-je me comporter en cas de non r\u00e9ussite?<\/li>\n
    • Que vais-je faire pour augmenter l\u2019intensit\u00e9?<\/li>\n
    • Que vais-je faire pour am\u00e9liorer la qualit\u00e9?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

      En anticipant ces \u00e9l\u00e9ments, ou en connaissant les adaptations possibles \u00e0 ton jeu ou ton exercice, tu favoriseras la r\u00e9ussite. \u200b<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>

      La fixation d’objectif(s) et de l’exigence<\/h3><\/div>

      Si dans ce jeu tu dis \u00abJe souhaite que vos passes soient au sol !\u00bb<\/b> c\u2019est un objectif<\/b>. Si le joueur fait une passe en l\u2019air , tu dois intervenir!<\/p>\n

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      • “Je t\u2019ai demand\u00e9 de faire une passe au sol!”<\/li>\n
      • “Est-ce que ta passe permet \u00e0 ton co\u00e9quipier de l\u2019exploiter?”<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        Par cons\u00e9quent, ne fixe qu’un ou deux objectifs pour ton jeu ou ton exercice! Et n’interviens vocalement ou physiquement que lorsque cet ou ces objectifs ne sont pas respect\u00e9s! <\/b><\/p>\n

        Pour le reste, observe<\/b>, retiens les points \u00e0 corriger pour une prochaine fois<\/b> et ne cherche pas tout corriger imm\u00e9diatement<\/u>!<\/p>\n

        Sans objectifs, sans focus sur ton exercice ou ton jeu, tu ne vas que constater des lacunes pour chaque joueur.<\/h3>\n<\/div>

        L’observation<\/h3><\/div>
          \n
        • Laisse les enfants jouer. Fais du jeu libre, retire-toi et observe!<\/li>\n
        • N\u2019interviens pas syst\u00e9matiquement!. Si une observation doit \u00eatre faite pour un seul joueur, n\u2019interromps pas le jeu pour les 11 autres!!! Prends-le \u00e0 part pour lui <\/span><\/font>expliquer et laisser les autres jouer!<\/span><\/font><\/span><\/li>\n
        • Si le jeu final se passe mal mais que c\u2019est leur moment, c\u2019est leur probl\u00e8me!!!<\/b> Laisse-les “g\u00e2cher” ce moment! (exception : s\u00e9curit\u00e9 de l\u2019enfant)<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>

          La th\u00e9orie de l\u2019\u00e9l\u00e9phant rose\u2026<\/h3><\/div>
            \n
          • Si je te dis de \u00abne pas penser \u00e0 un \u00e9l\u00e9phant rose\u00bb, tu es en train de te repr\u00e9senter un \u00e9l\u00e9phant rose. Pourtant je viens te dire de ne pas y penser!<\/li>\n
          • Le \u00abNe \u2026. pas\u2026.\u00bb provoque l\u2019effet contraire de ce qui est voulu!!!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

            \u00abEn tant que dernier joueur, tu ne dois pas dribbler!\u00bb<\/h3>\n

            Le joueur doit faire quoi? Est-ce que tu lui as donn\u00e9 une alternative?<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[113],"class_list":["post-10314","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jeux-et-exercices","tag-elements-theoriques"],"yoast_head":"\nCommuniquer positivement - FC Echallens R\u00e9gion<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fcer.ch\/index.php\/communiquer-positivement\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Communiquer positivement - FC Echallens R\u00e9gion\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.fcer.ch\/index.php\/communiquer-positivement\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"FC Echallens R\u00e9gion\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2026-02-16T21:00:22+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2026-02-18T09:40:41+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"David Tenthorey\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"\u00c9crit par\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"David Tenthorey\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Dur\u00e9e de lecture estim\u00e9e\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.fcer.ch\\\/index.php\\\/communiquer-positivement\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.fcer.ch\\\/index.php\\\/communiquer-positivement\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"David Tenthorey\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.fcer.ch\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/773b386bc25c8711c01b55eb925e0f70\"},\"headline\":\"Communiquer positivement\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-02-16T21:00:22+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2026-02-18T09:40:41+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.fcer.ch\\\/index.php\\\/communiquer-positivement\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":3523,\"commentCount\":0,\"keywords\":[\"El\u00e9ments th\u00e9oriques\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Jeux et exercices\"],\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.fcer.ch\\\/index.php\\\/communiquer-positivement\\\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.fcer.ch\\\/index.php\\\/communiquer-positivement\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.fcer.ch\\\/index.php\\\/communiquer-positivement\\\/\",\"name\":\"Communiquer positivement - 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